When talking about growth and health with children and teenagers, it is important to focus on overall health, wellbeing, movement, nutrition and quality of life rather than body weight or size.
Making small and achievable changes that support your child's health is more important than focusing on reaching a particular weight or body size. Every child is different, and what supports good health will look different for evert family.
Your role as a parent or carer matters
For younger children, parents and carers are often the biggest motivators for change. For teenagers, it’s important to give them space to set their own health goals, while offering guidance and support.
Creating a home environment that supports healthy habits
Children learn from what they see and experience at home. The routines, foods and activities that are part of family life can help support your child's health and wellbeing. You can help by:
- Encouraging active play, movement and activities that you child enjoys
- Offering a variety of nutritious meals/snacks and limiting ultra processed foods where possible
- Making water readily available and limiting sugar sweetened drinks where possible
- Supporting healthy sleep routines
- Creating opportunities for connection and activities away from screens
Setting realistic goals together
Starting with small, achievable goals can help build confidence and make changes easier to maintain. If your child or teenager would like to make changes to support their health, work together to identify goals that are realistic, achievable and meaningful.
For younger children, parents and carers can help identify simple changes that fit into family life. For older children and teenagers, support them to identify and set their own health goals, with guidance and encouragement from parents and carers.
Most importantly, try to keep conversations focused on health, wellbeing and what your child can do rather than weight, body size or appearance.
Your GP or paediatrician can be an important part of your child’s healthcare team. They can assess your child’s overall health and growth, provide ongoing support and help connect your family with local services when additional support is needed.
We encourage families to speak with their GP or paediatrician about supports that may be available in the community. Depending on your child’s needs, this may include:
- Dietitians for support with nutrition and eating
- Physiotherapists or Exercise Physiologists to support enjoyable movement and physical activity
- Psychologists to support emotional wellbeing and mental health
Your GP can also discuss whether your child is eligible for Medicare funded services (such as a GP Chronic Disease Management Plan or Mental Health Treatment Plan).
Questions to ask before booking an appointment
It's important to ask questions before booking an appointment, to make sure the service is a good fit for your child, teenager and family. You may like to ask:
- What is your experience working with children or teenagers?
- Do you have experience working with children or teenagers with disability, medical conditions or other complex health needs (if relevant)?
- What is your approach to supporting children and teenagers experiencing obesity?
- Do you have experience supporting the concerns that are important to my child or teenager (such as body image, eating habits, relationship with food, physical activity, depression, anxiety or emotional wellbeing)?